Finding Your Tribe

Tonight, while in bed and reflecting on the days events, it really hit me that I have found members of my tribe. No, it isn't some special club, just a special connection with specific people.
It is my experience, that you will meet people you just click with. People who you feel absolutely comfortable around and have no issues exposing those "quirks" you have.
I have a lot of quirks.
One of my quirks is anxiety that tends to make me withdraw from people before I get the chance to really know them.
So, when I find tribe members that I can get past my anxiety with and truly let ME shine, I embrace those people and those relationships.

Tonight, I did something for me. I have been feeling the pull to dance/be creative lately. I had a unique opportunity as a client reminded me earlier this week of Sauna Tap happening at one of the local dance studios. I am so glad that I went tonight. It felt good to move. It felt good to connect my energy to my creative side. It just so happens the class is taught by a beautiful soul that I consider part of my tribe.
The almost comical part of tonight was that the class tonight had a relaxation aspect to it, not just cardio.
SO, I got to do a guided meditation as part of the class too.

I'm getting sidetracked, but not too far. The point is, you can find members of your tribe anywhere you go. Sometimes the most chance encounter can lead to some of the most beautiful relationships.

Sometimes the members of your tribe are only meant to pop in for a short time. Others, they pop in and end up sticking with you through longer than you could imagine.

I have a group of "internet friends" I met over 10 years ago when planning my wedding (to my ex-husband). I have met some of them in person, some I have never met. But, we have stuck together and gone through life together. During our journey, there have been times I don't know what I would have done without them. They helped support me during some of the hardest moments of my life. They have laughed with me over the crazy antics of my kids. They have celebrated the small victories.

I have friends from high school that I don't see frequently. Lord help you if you are around when we get together though. We tend to be a loud bunch and we talk and laugh a lot.

I have a great friend that I met in school for massage therapy. A chance encounter that brought another member to my tribe.

Chances are, you have more tribe members than you really realize.
As I approach the 2nd anniversary of my father's death, I appreciate these relationships even more. Tell people you love and appreciate them. Sometimes they don't realize the impact a small action may have.

Thanks for reading. Thanks for following along of this journey.
Love and light to you on this summer solstice.