I’ve always been one to have a specific area/geographic location where I was grounded, a home for my soul. A place that always provided comfort, a sense of belonging, and it always provided that security of “if it isn’t right right now, it will be. This too shall pass.”
Recently, through a wide variety of events, I have lost this place for my soul.
Random backstory, I have lived in the same 2 counties for the majority of my life. I lived in another country for less than a year, and then the past 5+ years I have lived in a different part of the state I have always lived in. ALL of the homes I lived in from birth to about 9/10 are gone. Gone as in they are now just patches of grass.
Return to the current story:
I am currently rootless in my soul. I know I’m not meant to move back to where I am from…but I am also not meant to stay where I am at. There is a lack of clarity of where my next “home” should be. And this brings the big sads as I am someone who makes home where I go. I sink my roots in and try to make everywhere my physical home and try to recreate that sense of belonging.
Yes, I know that home, especially for my soul, doesn’t have to be a physical space…but your physical space does support you in your energetics as well.
We (the spouse and I) just returned from a mini vacation weekend with friends. It was to an area that I know well and is a larger city near where I’m from. We had a fabulous time. It was glorious for me to be surrounded by diversity again. However, upon returning to our physical home and running errands, I have realized how energetically stifling this area is for me and also my spouse (who isn’t as into the energies as I am). There are wonderful people here, some integral members of my soul family are here and I needed to meet them, but there is a lot of “locked in the past” energy here. Where differences from the norm are not really celebrated and appreciated. We have done alright here, we haven’t really thrived though. We have survived, which really relates to the times we are in.
All of this to really say, I’m not doing well not having a plan or goal that has tangible steps to it. I’m also mourning the loss of home from my own past, while trying to figure out the future. As a soul who relates very much to trees, it is hard being without my roots planted. This is a phase of life where I need to tap deeper into the water and flow.